Mr. Rochester and I are going to visit her grave this weekend. I am so glad that we are able to do this a second year in a row on her birthday. Since I know we probably won't always be able to visit her grave on her birthday, I'd like to establish some sort of a tradition to celebrate her on her birthday every year. I'm sure I'll make a cake in her honor. Mr. Rochester and I have talked about donating to Now I Lay me Down to Sleep each year on her birthday and we will probably do that, but I'd like to do something more...I've heard that some people release balloons, one for each year of the person's life, but I can't see myself doing that. I thought about making a quilt block each year for her and making them all into a quilt at some point and I kind of like that idea. Does anyone have any great ideas?